I would like to share a vision related to the inner “growth” through life in the day-to-day.
I think I should start from the base that we are not aware of what is or can be life, we live trying to validate through the “opinion” or “effects” we produce in others, but I feel that the road itself, is not complicated , but it is also not as simple as many “gurus” express, through paradoxes, koan or other forms of expression.
What I believe is that people need someone to understand it in the place where this person is at the time of communication with some “guide”, and from that place, the guide can deliver alternatives (almost carrying the hand many times during certain stretch S of the road).
According to the above and in my experience in walking, I have found that although it sounds obvious, the exercise of conscious breathing delivers a certain space that allows, with work, to understand or internalize what is life, as far as the outside is part Inherent in a reflection of what we are inside, that is to say, in this way, people can know in a concrete way, that with patience and work on their thoughts, little by little, they will see changing their world and they will learn to play in their own mind , lingering in it and so, self motivate each day more and continue with this game outside, not feeling that it is a “punishment” or a “reward” what one lives, but it is simply a game, which does not need the approval or rejection of the rest, but that of each one based on The ingredient of respecting each other’s space.
The question that appears for those who are beginning with this restlessness, can be how is it motivated someone who in the day-to-day lives “uncomfortable” things and what also lives is validated by all who surrounds it as REAL without another possibility of understanding? And for those who have already begun and advanced in this inner path can be born the question how do you motivate a person to not try to fight with their experiences, feelings, etc, even accepting mentally as painful or not, for the simple fact That they feel that they must learn something through the process that they live, that is to say they accept the processes but as punishments or awards, returning to the point that life is neither of the two things, but they are their own structures that do not let them see the Panorama comp Leta.
There is a third group of people who have lived through Stage 2, their fears are at the limit of being what they have always been and to take the step to being a conscious part of life integrated to the whole.
For those who are in the second scenario is a little easier, but it is not so safe, as many are so “structured” with beliefs, that they can not even see those structures, to tell them that their lives can change more easily than they Could imagine, can even be taken by them as a form of “attack”, with all that implies, in the sense of releasing energies that do not allow the path to integration and unification of the human being, but to a separation of roads, as can be Anger or other, as they do not even realize that their Ego is the one responding to the given suggestion. The worst of all is not what is indicated with respect to the type of energies, but if not acting in time, you can open a vicious circle door in which it is not recognized as meaning, since even you can try to justify sometimes the actions that could Have done.
So, what can we do about it? I think on the one hand, simply to tell them to devote themselves to getting tired of doing things in the day to day enjoying the experiences that have, independent of the type of energies that are released in the experience, also visiting the Nature continually, breathing quietly waiting for nothing, in this way, little by little, you will find “gaps”, “needs” in your being, that we know that the universe immediately try to fill and satisfy, so the next step is to be Attentive to the opportunities that we will see on the way in order to fill these “gaps” or “necessities”, since these opportunities are very often not the ones that “we would like” or those that our Ego “would like”, but are presented in very different ways, so Important is to “do”, “act” abroad, and then return to the playing field within our minds and so, almost without noticing, we will find ourselves traveling in the path of happiness, harmony, peace and abundance, which are the natural variables of life.
A very big hug in the distance,